due to illness(lady problems)partner has no interest in sex so looking for discrete liasons either with 1on1 lady married lady looking to spice up life a bit or a shy and have been there done most of to be slightly submissive so as to keep a comfortable report with other and respect given and check out and as being new to this would appreciate any tips to help my been without sex for more than 12mths now so may also need to be a good pupil!!!