Hey Swingers

If you would like to play, we must meet in person first for a coffee or something. Also before meeting for coffee, we need to exchange pics I had someone betray my trust a few times recently, I need to be a bit more guarded. I hope you understand.

It's mostly to know we can actually have a nice conversation and build trust.

Firstly - Life is short. So make Every day a good one

I'm not expecting to be trampled in the rush of women trying to get at me! I understand that it takes time, and the correct 'fit' between people to find what I seek.

Revenge is a dish best served cold! no relationship survives repeat abuses of trust. And if you aren't getting it at home, eventually you will seek it elsewhere.

Well traveled. Educated. Athletic and fit male. Experienced Dom. Seeks sub female to play with on regular basis.

I have a ‘compartment’ in my life. It’s the BDSM compartment. I’m exploring it. And I’m loving It.

It's pretty simple - If you are a mature woman who enjoys being dominated, and would like an on going kink-relationship, then I'd like to start chatting.

I don't like lies and liars. You will not get a vanilla 'relationship' from me. I'm not looking for a life partner. I'm looking for a playmate. The BDSM 'thing' is a compartment in my life, discrete from other compartments. That is not to say that we can't have a deep and meaningful relationship - but it will be in the BDSM space.

I’m interested in a woman and couples who is either a submissive who likes to be ordered about; fucked; spanked or whipped, if that is your 'thing'. I'm evolving as I learn. So I'm very open to new BDSM kinks. The essence of the 'fit' between us will, however, be primarily my role as Dom and yours as Sub.

I’ve had experience with a range of encounters. Every one is different. And I haven't always got it right. Finding the unique ‘key’ is so much fun. I'd make a great 'Daddy' too! I began a Daddy= Daughter relationship that had tremendous potential, but due to circumstances beyond either of our control, it had to be put on hold.

I have, however, a nurturing side as a Dom. I cannot treat you as a piece of meat, unless that is how you wish to be treated. Be careful what you wish for...

This is not a one off gig. I'm looking for a regular playmate.

In all seriousness - I don't give a damn about age or body type. Those things mean nothing. It's all about your enthusiasm.