Call me old old fashioned, but don't you think a woman is entitled to know just a little about the mind behind the member?

So to that end, leaving an appropriate amount of mystery I AM: a designer, expired arts activist, livable cities aesthete, fomenter of revolution of the two wheeled kind, talker / wannabe thinker. Middlebrow and proud. Wine is fine. Very fine actually.

I'm tall and agile and quick-witted. Not fond of organized religion or exercise, but I practice yoga, and cycle situp (dutch, everyday) style.

Vagetarian. NOT A HIPPIE. Also vegetarian.

Music is major: Downbeat, Leftfield, Euro Jazz, Funk, some Drum nBass. Before designing I worked a lot in the New Classical/Artmusic space – which i still follow. Not a major rocker but i find Shihad to be a wonderful thing, as is all sorts of alt things that happen the Kings Arms. Big local faves are Little Bushman, SJD, Sola Rosa and too many others to mention.

I love to discover new music – like any artform - even if I find it abrasive at first, I think wonderfully weird music is worth pursuing. Doesn't alway pay off but when it does…

But most times - working or relaxing - groove and atmosphere is all.

Not really into sport - all for people doing it - its the vicarious couch potato opiate of the people thing I don't quite get.

I'm an idealist - in my work I focus on non profit clients where I can, try leave this place as good as I can for those who follow. Gave up owning a car a few years ago and never looked back. I live centrally and love urban life: I do volunteer work to help make my town less car-dominated and more people friendly.

Now all of that is, if you will, subtext… a backgrounder, rather than a laundry list of requisites for anyone I might share a bed with. This is provided on account of I've heard that some of women have more than a passing interest in whatever is behind the cock. (actually there is, of course quite a bit more, but I do aim to tease.)

In fact I'm I get rather bored when there isn't something to argue about - au contraire - a little verbal joust is quite the turn on.

Am still formally in a relationship where we're really good friends, but it seems like that is the limit of things for quite a while ahead at least, and we have amicably agreed to open the relationship.

So yep, I've got a free pass and boy do i mean to use it! It's time to open up some new horizons.