For me, the perfect situation would be to meet a really fun couple around my age (plus or minus my age 5-10 years), attractive, relaxed, educated, excellent fun conversationalists, and professional with a great place to enjoy things (pool, spa. lifestyle block for privacy) and we get together for dinner and drinks and if everyone feels like the chemistry is there and we find each other attractive, then he seduces me and if things are going well she joins in? If the chemistry isn't there then we probably all feel that and no one stressed either way...really do not want any relationships or strings in my life at the current time...but would like to meet any cool fun couples who fit this description more or less...and for the avoidance of doubt my policy is "No shower, no condom, no action, no exceptions!"