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tomjr
9 hours ago
Straight Male, 50
Bi-curious Female, 50
0 km · New Zealand
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Interesting reply. All credit for responding, but I struggle to see how they could be dismayed? If I was very good looking and thought I would have the looks to make the cut and was subsequently turned down.........Well that wouldn't help my self esteem one iota and I would be feeling considerably worse than dismayed. In the swinging universe we have met some amazing people (some so far out of my league it isn't funny), we have met many we don't have an attraction for, well we try and let them down with courtesy and respect. So if I have caused some offence, well so be it, but someone has to stand up for average, or for stretchmarks from having 3 kids or a few wrinkles from a life well lived.
Oh and by the way we have met some of the people that didn't make the cut, and they are gorgeous, sexy fun and beautiful inside and out.
I know it takes a bit of getting your head around but you are perfectly normal. I was surprised to find I like it, and as I am an exhibitionist as well, it makes me want to "outfuck" the other guy as well, sounds strange but true, I also love it when Debs gets someone else off (male or female).
