We are fully vaxxed (booster) and our preference is for the same 💕

We see ourselves as a couple committed to freeing ourselves to enjoy our sexuality and to share it in as many ways as may fit for us - for sharing is what makes the world a better place. We may not always know what fits until we try it, so we tend to be curious and adventurous.  

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Please  -  Definitely No Single (Straight) Males; Everyone else - we'd love to hear from you  ...  ...  introduce yourselves; have pics of both of you - we do!; we are not into just meet and fuck - so if you are, we are not for you; we love intelligent conversation; and we only play together. Please don't take this as being insensitive or bigoted, we are a very open and progressive minded couple - just not into wasting anyone's time!!

We're a couple looking to meet similar couples to have a great friendship (just with our clothes off sometimes 😜). We aren't looking for a wham bam type thing ... ... and prefer if possible for our meets to happen again if the synergy/chemistry is there - FWB's are awesome! 😋

An excerpt from our Relationship Blog:

"All relationships require some measure of reciprocity. Sex partners should enrich each other’s experience not merely perform, otherwise ‘objectified’ becomes the result and the woman feels used - not necessarily abused, but used and it is as if she was there merely to be the chattel for being fucked. If this is the case and since brothels are legalised in this country, they are an option for the aggressive male. Don’t bring it on my wife/partner.

Treating your sex partner with respect, reverence, kindness and caring – that’s where the magic of pleasure begins. And this is precisely where we as a couple in the lifestyle fit in! 

We just love the friendship aspects of this style of life, talking openly and being ‘sassy’; meeting for a meal or drinks with our friends when the meeting is not just a means to an end but rather is the ‘end’; just sitting around talking with no sex involved; the soft-sex times; interesting and intelligent conversation and storytelling; pash-ups in the kitchen; a good old ‘scrag’ on the living room floor; our hot-tub sessions; sex under the stars; romance and foreplay; naturally bedroom play; the occasional pink bum; puppy piles when no one knows whose hand is on whom or on what; not really into one nighters except when we are travelling; and generally as we say, ‘to enjoy our sexuality and to share it in as many ways as may fit for us.’

So what do we ideally look for in this way of a modern open and accepting life?

Ideally, we look for like minded intelligent couples that love and respect their partner and are ready to enjoy new friendships and relationships in and out of the bedroom.

We are a fun loving, mature, professional couple with an incredible group of friends all over the world – aged from 28 to late 70’s and across the full culture, social and economic spectrum of life – after all, it’s the individual that counts  ...  ... the people we have great synergy with tend to be friendly and social; open minded rather than hard-core; laughing rather than full-on intensity; intelligent and interesting; no pressure or drama; are not aggressive and have absolute respect for the individual. And we are quite happy to lead those feeling their way. We are not a pressure, must fuck couple!87

Aggression is not on our list! In fact, a partner that turns out to be aggressive is afterwards picked up by the collar and flicked like a weasel into the disregard-until-change bucket!

We enjoy hosting compatible travellers from out-of-town with no pressure, no expectations and definitely with no strings attached

We know from our experience this scene is amazing for the deep friendships one can form with friends from near and far - and the benefits are definitely a plus!"

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We are professionals - into good friends first and see what follows when synergy is right; after years of experience we will always regard ourselves as learners! We are looking to extend our friendship to compatible couples - friendly, easy going and open with a sound, secure relationship who could become good friends - socialize, meet and have fun even when sex is not involved. So if you are looking for something more and want to have good friends like we do - let's talk, get together and hopefully, more ... ... !!

We believe that sex and sexual love are fundamental forces for good – activities with the potential to strengthen intimate bonds, enhance lives, create spiritual awareness, and even change the world (hey, hey!). We believe that all consensual sexual choices have these potentials – that any sexual pathway, consciously chosen and mindfully followed can be a positive, creative force in the lives of individuals.

We see ourselves as a couple committed to freeing ourselves to enjoy our sexuality and to share it in as many ways as may fit for us - for sharing is what makes the world a better place. We may not always know what fits until we try it, so we tend to be curious and adventurous.

We are very discrete, selective, clean/healthy, V-Safe and clean shaven (in the right places!) so if you think we have a good deal in common and definitively could be compatible … … would love to make contact with you. We are definitely against bed-hopping or ‘pushy’ contacts. We only play together.

Although ‘mature-ish’ we have friends of all ages including a ‘young’ circle! Age is but a number!

The first meeting is always no pressure, no commitment – a date to talk and see if there is that magic and then take it as it comes!! So, even if you are just exploring this open and freeing lifestyle, we are open to Talk - and understanding!

We have traveled extensively - returned home from the USA to Canterbury in October 2015 - and lived/worked/taught on 4 continents! This has not only given us a very open and aware attitude but has taught us total respect for the individual – irrespective!

Having recently 'retired', we are now more flexible time-wise and we embrace the lifestyle as a very healthy, normal way for people to be. We enjoy the openness and freedom. We would like to create a network of supportive, like minded people that we can be friends with!

FWB is our goal!

As we said, the first meeting is always no pressure, no commitment – a date to talk and see if there is that magic and then take it as it comes!!