Hi , i am A (Aims) long term member of the site , although havnt been active here for quite some time. 

J (Jace) passed away in September 2017.   He and i were strong moderators on this site for many years before he got sick with Leukaemia. 

I guess i am back after 5 yrs absence to learn how to be social again in a chat way and perhaps in person as friends only.  Im not ready for more than that.