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AnJ
1 month ago
Bi-curious Female, 48
0 km · Torbay

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we lost Jace on 10th Sept 11:43pm after 5+yr battle with Leukaemia and post transplant GVHD 

Jason's Viewing to be held at Elliot funeral home north shore 6 to 8pm  tonight and 9:30am to 11am tomorrow.   Welcome to leave flowers and cards with Jason. Address is 157 Shakespeare road Milford.  Pens will be supplied to write a message on casket.

Funeral service to be held Tuesday 12th September 230pm followed by reception at 4pm at north shore memorial park 235 schnapper rock road, schnapper rock. Auckland. 
Ash intonement and farewell Wednesday from 1230pm at north shore memorial park.   Also welcome at end of service to leave items on coffin for cremation with Jason.

Come and say goodbye to my amazing strong man who i will love forever

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In lieu of flowers  to funeral costs and catering please consider donations (contact me details)

just wanting to send all of Admin and Mods best to anyone affected by the midnight quake.  

Please know we are thinking of you 

Xxx

unsticky and thread locked as Vid Expo is no longer open

Was great to see some old friends and meet some new ones.
Include Jace and I (Jace is a maybe though as will be based on his health)
Can i also pls back these two livekybladies by saying if you sign uo and cant make it pls donthe right thing and let them know.
The number of people who seem to thinknthey dont have to is one of the reasons ive not done a meet for a while.
Sign up come along ,or let orgsnisers know, and have fun !!!
tonight was our first quiz for a while and oh it was fun ! Girls beat Boys 11 - 9 Be sure to keep an eye on this forum for when the next one will be !!!!!
Ohhhhh happy upcoming bday ! wish we could make but but highly unlikely. Bet you have an AWESOME night though you2 xxx
Folks dates before signing up to events that occurred the previous year biggrin
A new Site Help forum has been created and all our other forums are currently over tonight and next few days being cleaned up by myself. Daily updates of any site issues will be provided to me and when necessary will be updated in the Site Help forum.
What I ask is that all members experiencing issues have a read of the forums first to see if already being addressed. If not feel feel free to post a query and I or other mods will answer queries on a daily basis when we can.
If one is not answered it may be because I am in the hospital with JnA so feel free to send me a ks mail to alert me to it and i will do all i can to answer in the forum for you and ks mail you to advise completed.
We DO care guys and gals but life has been rather difficult in real life and online ( as you are all aware ). We ARE in the process of trying to make this easier for ALL.
A new Site Help forum has been created and all our other forums are currently over tonight and next few days being cleaned up by myself. Daily updates of any site issues will be provided to me and when necessary will be updated in the Site Help forum.
What I ask is that all members experiencing issues have a read of the forums first to see if already being addressed. If not feel feel free to post a query and I or other mods will answer queries on a daily basis when we can.
If one is not answered it may be because I am in the hospital with JnA so feel free to send me a ks mail to alert me to it and i will do all i can to answer in the forum for you and ks mail you to advise completed.
We DO care guys and gals but life has been rather difficult in real life and online ( as you are all aware ). We ARE in the process of trying to make this easier for ALL.
A new Site Help forum has been created and all our other forums are currently over tonight and next few days being cleaned up by myself. Daily updates of any site issues will be provided to me and when necessary will be updated in the Site Help forum.
What I ask is that all members experiencing issues have a read of the forums first to see if already being addressed. If not feel feel free to post a query and I or other mods will answer queries on a daily basis when we can.
If one is not answered it may be because I am in the hospital with JnA so feel free to send me a ks mail to alert me to it and i will do all i can to answer in the forum for you and ks mail you to advise completed.
We DO care guys and gals but life has been rather difficult in real life and online ( as you are all aware ). We ARE in the process of trying to make this easier for ALL.
A new Site Help forum has been created and all our other forums are currently over tonight and next few days being cleaned up by myself. Daily updates of any site issues will be provided to me and when necessary will be updated in the Site Help forum.
What I ask is that all members experiencing issues have a read of the forums first to see if already being addressed. If not feel feel free to post a query and I or other mods will answer queries on a daily basis when we can.
If one is not answered it may be because I am in the hospital with JnA so feel free to send me a ks mail to alert me to it and i will do all i can to answer in the forum for you and ks mail you to advise completed.
We DO care guys and gals but life has been rather difficult in real life and online ( as you are all aware ). We ARE in the process of trying to make this easier for ALL.
A new Site Help forum has been created and all our other forums are currently over tonight and next few days being cleaned up by myself. Daily updates of any site issues will be provided to me and when necessary will be updated in the Site Help forum.
What I ask is that all members experiencing issues have a read of the forums first to see if already being addressed. If not feel feel free to post a query and I or other mods will answer queries on a daily basis when we can.
If one is not answered it may be because I am in the hospital with JnA so feel free to send me a ks mail to alert me to it and i will do all i can to answer in the forum for you and ks mail you to advise completed.
We DO care guys and gals but life has been rather difficult in real life and online ( as you are all aware ). We ARE in the process of trying to make this easier for ALL.
A new Site Help forum has been created and all our other forums are currently over tonight and next few days being cleaned up by myself. Daily updates of any site issues will be provided to me and when necessary will be updated in the Site Help forum.
What I ask is that all members experiencing issues have a read of the forums first to see if already being addressed. If not feel feel free to post a query and I or other mods will answer queries on a daily basis when we can.
If one is not answered it may be because I am in the hospital with JnA so feel free to send me a ks mail to alert me to it and i will do all i can to answer in the forum for you and ks mail you to advise completed.
We DO care guys and gals but life has been rather difficult in real life and online ( as you are all aware ). We ARE in the process of trying to make this easier for ALL.
A new Site Help forum has been created and all our other forums are currently over tonight and next few days being cleaned up by myself. Daily updates of any site issues will be provided to me and when necessary will be updated in the Site Help forum.
What I ask is that all members experiencing issues have a read of the forums first to see if already being addressed. If not feel feel free to post a query and I or other mods will answer queries on a daily basis when we can.
If one is not answered it may be because I am in the hospital with JnA so feel free to send me a ks mail to alert me to it and i will do all i can to answer in the forum for you and ks mail you to advise completed.
We DO care guys and gals but life has been rather difficult in real life and online ( as you are all aware ). We ARE in the process of trying to make this easier for ALL.
Quote by Firebutice" date="22/02/2015 2:18:48 pm
Well it now seems that the truth hurts, my postings to the false couples profile wall and to the so called "single" male profile were wiped and now I have been blocked.
What consequences are there when it's the liars and cheats on here with their false information on profiles are able to act like innocent respondents?
I can't report them either as they have blocked me and what's even more unreal is, the "single male" husband has even blocked his wife on their older couples profile. In my view, she wont like me saying, but I think she has been humiliated long enough by these false profiles and there's not a thing we can do about it but add to this forum while they continue to be members.

You can still report a profile that you have been blocked from. If you go to contact us and then use the tech support option.
Please note though that proof of the profile being lying would ve required before anything could be done. Moderators cannot act on rumours.
Thank you for your informative reply and you will realise that I am infuriated by the couple who has manipulated the situation and my friend's husband who by the way has changed his profile to "separated", which is more the fact. Initially I had thought it was wrong when reading the false information in the first place and ultimately spoils what swing is about. I have seen these misbehaviours before and demeans the trust needed in these relationships. Someone needs to speak up and say it loud and clear, get rid of these couples, who make false profiles or misleading information and people who continue to get away with it.
I do understand your position and appreciate that but rumours remain rampant when someone doesn't speak up in the first place.. I posted publically my concerns because I know the facts and judging by their reactive response to wiping my postings off their walls fast and being blocked, speaks loudly enough.
actually you continuing to post it points towards you as openly causing trouble as you still have not bothered to put in a report on who the misleading profile is.
once we receive a report then we can act.
due to this fact i am now locking this thread. if this is brought up again semi pointing to people and no report is made then we will need to consider memberships of the open causing trouble people.
you are very welcome to message me directly as i am a site moderator or to use the report function on that persons profile. if you choose to then please again be sure that proof will be required.
again instead of spreading rumours the person involved should be offering proof of the situation to the moderators , either directly in chat or by using the report function on the offenders profile. the constant carry on in this thread is a clear showing that those involved just want to spread the discussion and not make a grown up message to the moderation team and that is really sad.
Quote by Allother" date="26/02/2015 5:56:01 pm
Do you think its fair the site breeds fake accounts? Could they be not visible for members, we pay money.

The internet in general is a fabulous place for people creating fake accounts however please note KiwiSwingers does not "breed" fake accounts.
As a site moderator I would like to remind all that if you come across an account you believe is fake, can show some reasons you believe this and/or proof of the matter then please provide all this to the moderators via the report function on the profile you believe is fake.
Please also note that a report just stating "fake" or similar is NOT enough proof or reasons.
Any accounts discovered to be fake are then permanently banned from the site.
Quote by Firebutice" date="22/02/2015 3:46:19 am
Well it now seems that the truth hurts, my postings to the false couples profile wall and to the so called "single" male profile were wiped and now I have been blocked.
What consequences are there when it's the liars and cheats on here with their false information on profiles are able to act like innocent respondents?
I can't report them either as they have blocked me and what's even more unreal is, the "single male" husband has even blocked his wife on their older couples profile. In my view, she wont like me saying, but I think she has been humiliated long enough by these false profiles and there's not a thing we can do about it but add to this forum while they continue to be members.

You can still report a profile that you have been blocked from. If you go to contact us and then use the tech support option.
Please note though that proof of the profile being lying would ve required before anything could be done. Moderators cannot act on rumours.
Quote by luv2spoon" date="3/02/2015 1:11:59 pm
I know the moderators are busy at this hectic time, but for goodness sake. A single male profile recently uploaded 50+ photos that have been ripped from various pornsites.
I mean 50+ photos!! Surely alarm bells would be ringing? A 26yo male who has had sex with over 30 different woman, not impossible I know, but really?? ... And all young, nubile models? sad

Id like to put my hand up and say i think it was me who authorised those photos.
I do all my mod work via my phone and unless something is clearly fake i authorise. I actually deleted many of the same members photos as well as authing many. Unfortunately sometimes , being human, i get it wrong.
gahhhhhh keyboar broken lol excu$e my terrible typing ! i have sent invites out to all (i think) please let me know if not xx
all invites to here have now been sent ( to those who have paid their venue charge ) sorry but no invite will be sent to those who have not paid. should you pay prior to the 16th AND I have time to send the invite to you then you will receive. a huge thanks to NACNAC for helping to follow up for me so far. If you havnt received your invite and you have paid can i please ask you to mail me the date of the payment and i will follow up for you asap.
not paid yet ? best get to it guys and gals, no venue charge being paid means no invite prior to event sad
Invites will start going out tomorrow daytime to those who have paid their venue charge. biggrin
Although i have been very absent from chat the meet is definitely still on!!! If you havnt paid,have lost the account mail OR i havnt provided you with the account number then please mail/whisper NACNAC who will provide you with this info. Only those who have paid will receive the invite and location two weeks prior.