"Sex is one of the nine reasons for reincarnation. The other eight are unimportant." - George Burns

I'm trying to be direct on here because my experience on here has taught me that there are a lot of time wasters on this site. 

I'm no hard-core swinger, however If you like my profile, I hope you might read it through, as it is more than just some pics.   Please don't just be another tyre kicker!!   I regularly get people wanting to chat and or meet, then just disappear, what's with that?  I'm open to chat, it's only a chat?

I know we all have our preferences, so I'm not offended if I'm not what you are looking for, but no harm in being open and up front in having a brief chat.    We might even like each other if willing to take the time to actually communicate!  I'm not into randoms, prefer to know something about who I'm meeting.    We need to find each other both attractive and interesting to spend some quality time together.                                                                   

I'm looking for quality rather than quantity. I do have standards and I definitely don't consider this an exercise in notches on belts etc!   I'm not DTF anyone and everyone! I'd like to think I am an articulate, good looking male, looking to meet a woman or a couple for adult fun.  Be nice to find someone with both attitude and class.                

So more than happy to become friends rather than just a oncer!  I'm not here to collect notches on my belt or headboard, but ok, hardly expect to live out of each other's pockets.

Very importantly I am very clean drug and disease free. I consider I am in reasonable shape and lead an active and healthy lifestyle.

I am socially comfortable with most people and can converse with anyone. Might even be considered sapiosexual as I do like find out what people are thinking and their attitudes.

Just in case you are thinking from the nickname, that I am cheating etc, I am definitely not married, and playing on the side, but I’m not being judgmental by stating it, just being honest and open. Happy to meet women or couples, single, married, even a hotwife!  We are all here for our own reasons, so I am not going to judge you either. I’m more than happy to remain very discreet, our private lives are just that!

I am able to travel, and if you want to visit, happy to accommodate and entertain. Also, I have found some on here expect you to drop everything and come and visit in their hotel. I'm not on here on hold, with nothing else to do waiting for the next gig, knowing absolutely nothing about you!  I do have a life and sometimes it is busy!  Yes, I am definitely open to a social no expectations first meeting, however let's negotiate the time and place, and not get too demanding if it isn't as convenient as you expect?

I'm more than happy to chat with anyone openly I know many on the net seem to hide behind their PCs, although I am very discreet, I am more than willing to meet with anyone socially without any obligation to go further, unless everyone is comfortable.

And yes, I do have standards and preferences as no doubt you will have too. I am also very clean and would expect the same from those I should meet. Never apologize for having high standards, people who want to be in your life will rise up to meet them.....

More than happy to chat online, it's all about understanding and communicating who we are and what we want, with no expectations or pressure. But if you say you'd like to meet, lets organise it and make a date!   But to be fair we all have lives, with various routines, schedules and commitments, so I don't expect meetings to be immediate, happy to negotiate time and place which works for all.

I know this site isn't exactly playing tiddlywinks,  but I'm not into playing games, I try to be straight up.    Honest and open conversations are about saying what you mean and meaning what you say.  Not what you think someone wants to hear!         I have had more than my fair share of time wasters, as no doubt you have, so why waste each other's time?   It seems from my experience so far, good communicative people are very rare on here, lots of ghosts!  Lots of people who are all talk and probably not ready for this type of experience.!  Or is it that they aren't bold enough to walk the talk?  How hard can it be?

I know that some here are not full members and only have three messages a day, so let's find an alternative way to have a conversation rather than be left wondering what might have been, if that works for you?

Thanks for reading this far, some of my thoughts may be a bit hard-nosed, I'm always friendly, but as I've said earlier, have come across plenty of window shoppers, tyre kickers and total time wasters!  And life's too short for that! Just saying!

Oh, and one more thing, yes, another negative, please don't send random friend requests, if you want to chat, you know what to do!

Hope you are all having fun!      Kind regards!

 "Remember, if you smoke after sex you're doing it too fast."

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