Eightoutof10 parties

Hi Fernella et al,

I'm intrigued by the comments around exchanging photographs and "the other 8/10 quality on offer".  We pride ourselves on the confidential nature of the screening process which all prospective guests complete prior to attending our events.  That discrete approach certainly does not include sharing photographs, or details, of other attendees or applicants.  Those couples and single ladies who do attend our parties rely on us to uphold the standards on which our events are based, and the positive feedback from those guests reassures us that the approach we've adopted is the right one.  Having said that, we certainly do not mean to upset those who apply and are not accepted, and we try our utmost to avoid offending those people when communicating our decision.  As has been conveyed earlier in this forum, we all have different "standards" when it comes to this part of our lives.

Warm regards.

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I see you your point altcouple..... but you are still being judged by some one before they meet you, 

Unfortunately we almost all judge people before we meet; why else do most people ask for a face or a body pic..

I'm pretty straight up but If a guy sent me a pic and he had one eye; no teeth and looked like he was hit by the fugly stick; I'm not 100% sure I'd say; yeah let's meet privately.. I like the big meets so I can make a buddy connection and see people for who they are inside.. 

We have been to a few and they are great fun. Sociable and friendly. The vetting process is done well. Photos of yourselves then a phonecall to chat to both of us to make sure we're real and can actually hold a conversation. Doesn't matter how amazing you look,because  if you can't socialise then it's not going to work well.  Everyone chosen is chosen for their personalities as well as their appearance to some degree. As best you can off first impressions that is. It's not a perfect science and mistakes are made. Some should  have made the cut and some shouldn't have. But generally everyone is very well presented and very friendly and personable. 

If you apply be prepared to be declined. I'd say 15% of people are actually accepted. If you're applying then you're obviously wanting to go. Don't be offended if you're not accepted.  We were absolutely positive we wouldn't be accepted but applied just in case and out of curiosity.  We were quite shocked when we actually were! 

At no point did we ever know who was going to be there or until last moment where it even was!. Absolutely no way do the hosts divulge information of others guests. They are the most wonderful and professional hosts you could ever want to have. The work and effort they put into it is astounding and should  be applauded. I certainly wouldn't want to try to do it. 

So in essence they aren't these pretentious and snobby parties everyone seems to think they are. Everone is normal everyday people from all over New Zealand. We've met everyone from gibstoppers to corporate managers. And everyone gets on. We've had just as much fun ( actually probably more if I'm honest!) at CCK . So if you get to go enjoy it for what it is. If not then don't think you're missing out on more than it is. X

never judge a book  by its cover  ...  its whats on the inside that counts ... anmd you are all sexy  people 

Exactly right. Like everyone else we also get judged by our cover. Have had some terrible comments by people on the way we both look. But that's just how some look at things

We applied, are didn't make it either....!

check the latest gallery

WABBY - don't judge a book by its cover? Can ya take ur cover off and shake dem mammaries ;P u rockkkkk

A quick note to confirm that we've just released the dates of our next events in February and March 2017.  Please contact us for further details. Couples and single ladies only. Discretion assured.

Do you not have bi guys within your couples ? No single men??? 

Hi Awesome, thanks for your message. 

Based on the preferred interests of our guests, our parties are open to couples and single ladies only. There may well be bi guys within the couples who attend, but that's not a criteria which we specifically seek nor monitor.

Lx

Another great party this weekend: many thanks to all those single ladies and couples who came along..

Hello there, just to clarify some of the earlier comments on this forum; on occasion we see a profile on KS for a couple or single lady who we consider may be a good fit at our events.  We then extend an invitation to contact us to learn more about our screening process as prospective guests.

 We do not extend invitations to attend our events directly via this, or other similar websites, before the screening process has been completed.

As always, we do not intend to offend, but are very aware of the guests who do attend our events, and their expectations in regard to the "standard" of other guests.

Another great couple of parties this weekend: many thanks to all those single ladies and couples who came along; many of whom were attending one of our events for the first time.

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you deserve to be invited, I didn't make the cut but would be keen to be your date if you want to go.....

Hi there, to clarify; you didn't make the cut as your profile suggests that you're a single guy? Our events are open to couples and single ladies only; a factor driven by the preferences of other guests. No offence is intended on our part.

We've just announced the date of our next event. We look forward to hearing from interested couples and single ladies.

A quick note to confirm that we've just released the dates of our next events in early 2018.  Please contact us for further details. Couples and single ladies only. Discretion assured.

We've just released the dates of our next events in April 2018.  Please contact us for further details. 

Couples and single ladies only. 

Discretion assured.

We've just created an event on KS, for our next party, taking place the weekend of 16/17 June 2018.  Please contact us for further details. 

Our parties are open for couples and single ladies only. All prospective guests are taken through our introductory process to ensure an appropriate mix of attendees.  This involves the submission of a brief bio, and a phone call with me (Louise).

We are intentionally selective, and don’t mean to offend anybody as a result of this.  Discretion assured, and expected.

A quick note that we have now filled all the available places for single ladies at the 8/10 party this weekend.  

We still have limited places available for couples.

how much does attending a party cost ?

My wife and I made it to the screening process for one of these (somehow we sent pictures that made the cut), but we’re hesitant to go without hearing about it from someone who has already gone  

Does anyone know anyone personally who has been? I’d love to ask a few questions about it  

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how much does attending a party cost ?

 I have the same question