We started swinging by accident years ago. I think a lot more people would do it, they just need that initial kickstart. It all started when we were very young and we had moved to Australia for work. My wife and I both worked for the same company but she worked in manufacturing and I worked about five kilometers away in R & D. I was away for a couple of weeks on business in Adelaide. When I returned I found she had love b...

My ex-wife and I had been swingers for years. I thought we were quite adventurous until I met Samantha. We met on this site. When I was with my ex-wife although we were very adventurous, looking back I was the one that made all the suggestions. Sam was totally different, she had an absolutely filthy mind and a wild imagination. She was very extroverted and love to flirt. There’s only one thing she enjoys more than flirtin...

ya know It’s funny how life can be. Sometimes the most unplanned things just happen. I belong to a swingers group in Auckland my ex wife and I joined the swinging community many years ago but unfortunately we divorced ( nothing to do with the lifestyle ) so now I have gone from having a couples profile to the profile of a single male. One night I was scolding through an adult site just reading the conversations. I court t...

I can’t believe I was so stupid !!! All the signs were there, I just didn’t see them. It’s been four weeks since I thought my wife was cheating on me. It has taken all this time to get my head around what has happened. In the last four weeks I have thought about several responses. You need to know more about my wife before I go any further. We have been married 37 years and when I met her she was a virgin. She said I was...

I live in Nelson which is a smallish town at the top of the South Island. The swinging community here is not very large and I don’t want my private life to become public. I have done a lot of things, but I’ve always had this fantasy about having a gang bang…………Which has never been fulfilled. Because Nelson is a small place and I like to keep a low profile. I do very often play out of town. It was on one of these escapades...

I love holidays but hate the flying part. It’s not that I’m afraid of flying it’s just that I find it very boring. Sitting still in a tin can for three hours is about my limit. Of course if I had a partner in crime I’m sure I could last longer and make it more fun. Today I’ll be doing one of my longest flights. It is from Heathrow to Auckland via the U.S. it is broken up with a five hour stopover in Dallas.. i’m not looki...

I have just gotten back home from a fun, exciting and rewarding afternoon. My girlfriend and I are both in the lifestyle. She has a friend called Dave who she has had the pleasure of his company more than once, if you know what I mean. She knows we both have a love of motorcycles. And suggested I text him. It didn’t take very long to get from motorcycles to sex. I guess he just has a thing about riding things. Well althou...

Like everyone we have friends in the lifestyle and other friends who are not. Usually we keep them quite separate. And those that are not in the lifestyle don’t know about our other pursuits. We have a hard core group of friends which we all quite often get together with. It’s not always about sex, quite often we will get together and do social things although we do usually end up fucking. There is Steve and I and two oth...

My husband ( Steve ) and I live in a small town. There aren’t a lot of opportunity to play, although we do have a couple of friends ( Jack and Heather ). Who we quite often get together with to have a fun session with. You could say Heather is slowly finding her bi side. At the moment she is happy to kiss and is okay with breast play. Steve and I had planned a weekend away is a large town approximately one hours drive awa...

My husband ( Steve ) and I belong to an adult site on the Internet. A couple of days ago he said we both have been invited to a sex night. He had been told they were always great fun. And there would be another three couples, two single guys and a single woman. And to dress in anything you would normally wear to a sex party. I could tell he was excited by it and the thought of it was also exciting me. It was to be held in...

I met Jack recently online. Like me he also likes to write erotic stories. So I read them. I couldn’t believe how similar we were. Not only do we both write erotica, but some of our stories are nearly identical and we both think the same way and think alike sexually. We both believe that sex isn’t about us. We both get our sexual pleasure from watching and hearing our partners enjoying themselves. And we both get a turn o...

My husband (Alan)and I have been communicating with Jeff online. We had agreed to meet at his house for a no sex fun evening. My husband Alan and Jeff were like brothers. When he found out my name was Joy he said “Joy by name and Joy by nature.” We all hit it off so decided to make a future date. We decided to go to dinner and then to a late night comedy show. The night duly arrived and we all met at Jeff‘s house, taking...

Well I’ll tell you about an exciting and adventurous meeting I had with a woman recently. I have been communicating with a woman from Marlborough recently. We have become close friends and although we have never met we both think very much alike, in fact you could say she is the female equivalent of me. She has a very dirty and imaginative mind and is rather adventurous. A little bit like myself. She knows my brother and...

Recently I have been communicating with a guy I met on the Internet. We have never met, but I know exactly what he looks like from his profile. We talk about all sorts of things. From the news of the day to philosophy. But usually it ends up on the subject of sex. And how men and woman view it differently or our sexual fantasies. He told me some of his and I told him some of mine. He said I am sure we could knock a few of...

I work in Christchurch for a nation wide company that has branches throughout New Zealand. Most of my day is spent on the phone to other branches around the country. In Auckland I deal with a woman called Moana. She has a very deep voice and I find it very sexy. Up until recently we spoke very professionally and straight, that was until the day when I spoke to her and she was definitely laughing. When I asked her what was...